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[kaydeefalls]

Had a bit of a spat with the boyfriend yesterday evening, which resulted in me heading off downtown to see Kingdom of Heaven alone. Once my general pissed-off-ness cooled down, I had quite a nice night. It was like being single again. Two guys waiting at the bus stop started chatting me up and flirting, and I enjoyed it a lot more than I should

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[gabbyhope]

Honestly, I was in that exact boat all these past nine months. It's crazy insane having to be separated from your significant other for a prolonged amount of time with nothing to rely on but the internet and sporadic phone time, and, yes, there have been times when I was chatting with a guy or a girl and I suddenly imagined what it would be like to be available because, hey, he/she's cute and funny and enjoyable and why SHOULDN'T I have fun while I'm over here? But (for me, at least), it never lasted long and I always felt a twinge of guilt, no matter how good it feels to be flirted with. What I guess I'm trying to say is that thinking such things, even if you do love him, is perfectly normal. It shows you're in touch with reality, I say. Why shouldn't you consider your choices rather than just cling on blindly? I mean, it's your life! Maybe you should think about bringing it up with him? Maybe he'll feel the same, you never know. Or maybe you'll decide in the long run -- like me -- that if it's good, if it's lasting, then it

[msilverstar]

Do talk with him about it, but don't break up because you think you "should". It might happen, it might not, but wait and see what life brings.