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[kaori_knight]

You know what I don't understand? People who unfriend other people without even attempting to talk about what the problem is. I can honestly say that is probably one of the most selfish and immature things a person can do. Don't run away from your problems, talk about them, try to work them out. If you don't, fine, I respect your decision. But

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[your_lifeis_now]

No shit. It shows a level of immaturity and selfishness that I just don't understand.

[thecutepolice]

I understand it, girls. It's a lot easier to make things someone else's fault, and make them the evil baddie bads, then to take responsibility that you might have handled something wrong. Especially when those other people not only move on, but then try to be nice to you! (oh the horror!!!)

You were supposed to beg and plead and change the rules. obviously the fact that you didn't makes you the bad guys.

[your_lifeis_now]

*laughs* Oh the horror! We commited the ultimate sin. We were NICE *facepalm* Meh. I guess if this makes me a bad guy, I'll live with it. *dons black hat*

[thecutepolice]

Yes, you are teh evil! It's good to embrace it.

I'll tell you girls what else I think... but not in open LJs... it sounds too petty.

[ragdoll]

Totally. It's one thing if you don't know the person and never interact with them at all. It's another when you think you know someone and have talked to them, RP'd with them, etc. and then suddenly, they're gone without a clue. Then you feel like a dork even taking the time/energy to ask "what happened?"

I would never do that to anyone I care about!

[kaori_knight]

That's because you and I are mature adults! The only people who do this have the maturity capacity of a teaspoon. They are totally grrrr!

[ragdoll]

I wouldn't necessarily say I was mature at all but I value my friendships with people too much to just cut them off without a word.

I've found a lot of people are just really not like that.

[kaori_knight]

Both him and someone else. Seems like another person decided to unfriend me without so much as an attempt to talk about shit, and this person is 21 years old!

[007nick1978]

I'm feeling unfriended by JJ... :(

[kaori_knight]

Awww I'm sorry. What's up dude?

[durhambluedevil]

JJ, have Maria tell you about the guy who I had dated/been friends with for nearly four years, who ended our friendship by moving in with a female friend-turned nemesis while I was away in Virginia on an internship AND TELLING ME OVER EMAIL only after I had called him and found out his home phone was disconnected and left a really really concerned message on his cell phone.

I agree with the above comments that sometimes people don't know how to be mature/strong and face the issues they have in a relationship and find it easier to just disappear. I've never understood that. I am probably too blunt with people about my thoughts, feelings, but I like to get things out in the open...for better or worse.

It seems like you are a very intelligent, caring person. Too bad that these two individuals have lost their connection to knowing such a person.

[thecutepolice]

um... you just told it.

Really

[alex_kain]

I agree with you completely. . .except for one thing you did that to me. . .and I still don't know why.

Re: Really

[kaori_knight]

I didn't unfriend you from my f-list... you're still on it.

Re: Really

[alex_kain]

I wasn't when you got so oober pissed at me for whatever reason like two years ago lmao. and how the hell have you been JJ miss talkin to ya.