It's just starting to hit me now that my mother is gone. I'm starting to go to pieces every few hours. I'm sure it'll take a while to really sink in, so bear with me. The nightmares over the last five days have just been the icing on the Cake of Bereavement, let me tell you, flist.
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But then I got to Joy and Sorrow, and I started to cry. I really am so sorry for your loss, though I don't feel that I have the words to express myself adequately.
Thank you for sharing part of your mum and your memories with us.
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It's wonderful to hear from you, too. It's been a while.
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But maybe I needed the jolt.
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I don't really know you too well but I'm sorry.
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I guess that's one of the positive things about grief and loss - it taps into reservoirs of emotion and empathy that may not be immediately apparent between two online acquaintances.
When my father died, I was shocked sometimes at how people I didn't know well came through for me, checked up on me, visited me, and generally behaved with nobility, consideration, and tangible affection. I'm starting to see a bit of that with my mother's passing - and I'm remembering how important that was to me processing my father's death. It's important to balance loss with what small grace exists in human nature.
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