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[kaimeko]

I would really like to understand why it's so much easier for me to make friends with guys than with girls.

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[pendragoness]

Hmmm. It's easier for me to become aquaintences with guys, but it's easier for me to make friends with girls.

I think for me, it's because with girls there is this very specific small talk-y process thing that you have to go through that I do, but it annoys me a little bit. With boys, there is the small talk-y stage, but it consists mostly of joking. But pratically none of my close friends (the sort who I can tell anything to) are guys.

Also, the aquaintence thing doesn't often get very far, because it takes a long time for a school or work friend (who I would call a friendly aquaintence) to become a hang-out-outside of school friend (who I would call an actual friend) unless our friends groups are sort of comingling anyway.

And then there is the whole added dimension of becoming friends with guys of crushability. Anyway.

[spikedrumpunch]

Maybe you're worried their ovaries will take over your cycle?

[kaimeko]

My goodness! That's it!

[kexiel]

I would really like to understand how it's easier to be friends with one gender than with the other. Maybe you can explain it to me.
I want to eat a blueberry muffin right about now. Wouldn't that be nice?

[genelee]

i've always wondered this too and i don't know the answer but it worked out nicely for me.

i think part of it must have to do with a natural response to meet the opposite gender and get it on, to put it plainly.