You are not a failure for returning to Wirral, not at all - really. I can understand why you are feeling that way at the moment, and it's a combination of things, mostly, I'd guess because you haven't got a job, so you're still with your mum and . . .
And, Ren, as much as you hate (because I know you do) being on allowances, you have a right to them and you have to try to tell yourself that and accept it for now. I'm sure it won't be that long before you can find something.
I'm really delighted to hear Nat is getting on so well at school and is so happy being with his family.
Happy Mothering Sunday to you too, hon. And yes, the list is indeed endless.
Thanks Nikki for that. Both you and Anita are knocking sense into me.
And yes I have to admit that much as I hate having to rely on benefits I do need them. Nat is happy here and that is the main thing, he loves being with the family especially his little cousin Ben. He hasn't admitted to missing his old friends or anything and he frequently speaks to his dad. Oh he does miss the cats though,lol. But it looks like it was a very good move to make, and once Col comes up, hopefully wil turn out emotionally better for us all.
*SNUGGS* You have no idea how much I have missed you, and I definitely look forward to seeing much more of you in the coming months :D
I'm glad that Nat is settling in so well, and you really mustn't feel that you're a failure for returning to Wirral - I think time will prove it to be the right decision, hands down.
Good luck with the job hunt, but don't be too hard on yourself it takes a while - after all, it's been a bleak time all round on the economy front, so make sure you get everything you're entitled to until you do get that job.
Happy Mother's Day to you too, hon.
ps - If you look again, you may just find you have access to some free squirrels until some point tomorrow... Just saying...
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Missed you Ren! You're not a failure for returning to Wirral; in fact, you're re-discovering Wirral so it's something new too!
*hugs* Glad to hear that you and Nat are settling in well, and good luck on the job front.
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Glad to hear from you too Hon:)
Takes flying leap and tackles back :)))
Must get installing the yahoo stuff etc so we can have a good old chatter and catch up :)
HUGS and much love
Ren xxxxxx
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I have my kaglets66@yahoo.co.uk thing on that.
I got fed up of yahoo too .
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You are not a failure for returning to Wirral, not at all - really. I can understand why you are feeling that way at the moment, and it's a combination of things, mostly, I'd guess because you haven't got a job, so you're still with your mum and . . .
And, Ren, as much as you hate (because I know you do) being on allowances, you have a right to them and you have to try to tell yourself that and accept it for now. I'm sure it won't be that long before you can find something.
I'm really delighted to hear Nat is getting on so well at school and is so happy being with his family.
Happy Mothering Sunday to you too, hon. And yes, the list is indeed endless.
*Huggles some more*
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Both you and Anita are knocking sense into me.
And yes I have to admit that much as I hate having to rely on benefits I do need them.
Nat is happy here and that is the main thing, he loves being with the family especially his little cousin Ben.
He hasn't admitted to missing his old friends or anything and he frequently speaks to his dad. Oh he does miss the cats though,lol.
But it looks like it was a very good move to make, and once Col comes up, hopefully wil turn out emotionally better for us all.
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Returns the huggles xxxx((((()))))xxxxx
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I know exactly how you feel, hon.
Oh, good. That is so wonderful to know.
I'm glad he doesn't seem to be missing his old friends and he talks to his dad a great deal. I can imagine he would be missing the cats. Bless him.
It does seem that way. Any idea yet as to when Col might be making the move? It all seems very positive, really.
*Hugs some more*
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I'm glad that Nat is settling in so well, and you really mustn't feel that you're a failure for returning to Wirral - I think time will prove it to be the right decision, hands down.
Good luck with the job hunt, but don't be too hard on yourself it takes a while - after all, it's been a bleak time all round on the economy front, so make sure you get everything you're entitled to until you do get that job.
Happy Mother's Day to you too, hon.
ps - If you look again, you may just find you have access to some free squirrels until some point tomorrow... Just saying...
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