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jynxgirl

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Feb 16, 2012 17:50

I am having a really hard time with how my pregnancy is progressing. there's going to be a lot of emotion spewed here in the next few days. probably a few things said that shouldn't be said but that I need to get out.
( lots of stuff, probably talk about vaginas and birth and politics etc.. tmi warning. )

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pickleboot February 17 2012, 01:54:14 UTC

big hugs from someone who knows exactly how you feel. not the diabetes thing, but the not a normal birth thing.

so much love to you. i wish i could come and help, but not sure how much i could do.

lanisatu February 17 2012, 02:40:59 UTC

You do not have to feel guilty or explain why you're upset about not having a "normal" pregnancy. That option was taken away from you, and it's most definitely not fair. You have every right to be upset about that. And you especially have the right to be upset that the way things changed make it harder for your son to be born as healthy as possible. I can only imagine how hard that is, and I'm really sorry that you're having a difficult pregnancy again ( ... )

msbratty February 17 2012, 04:32:51 UTC

All of this, I couldn't have put it better myself.

Thank you lanisatu

We're here to listen, you're not whining at ALL

yukinoomoni February 17 2012, 22:49:58 UTC

Aw man. I'm so sorry.

Not whining at all. You're a Mom voicing your frustrations and fears phantasm13 February 18 2012, 05:45:45 UTC

*hugs*
You have every right to feel upset. Things are not going the way they are supposed to.

BUT
You are not allowed to keep beating yourself up for your health re the diabetes.
Yup it's damn frustrating and even more so when you are growing a little person inside you, but that is energy better spent on something else.
I wish we were closer, we'd be helping anyway we could if we were.
I wish we could visit. email or fb me your details again. Perhaps we can drop by on our way home since we drive through Oshawa via the 401 when traveling from Ottawa to KW.

*hugs*

Hang in there. With a lot of hope, prayer and positive thinking you will not have to worry about Alena going elsewhere because she will be home with you till "little guy" comes along.
You just keep taking care of you and take each day as it comes, I know easier said then done, but it's gotta get done.

And seriously, Anthony will be there for you and support you and help you. You're his wife and you're carrying his and your baby. He loves you.
*hugs*

serenitylioness February 18 2012, 14:56:45 UTC

my heart is with you!
Much much love!