Well that sucks...

[justbecause421]

Long time no write, I'm sorry! I even have a list of things I want to write about but you know stuff happened then other stuff then... no write... And honestly this isn't going to be much of a post either but I need a minute to wallow and I can't really think of anywhere else to do it. You see one of my best friends "broke up" we me today, over

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[enchanted_jae]

I'd say, if you haven't done anything or changed in any significant manner, then it IS her.

I'm sorry you've lost a close friend, but don't burn your bridges with her. It's possible she'll get out of whatever funk she's in and wish to reconnect. It will be easier for her to do so if there aren't harsh words exchanged between you.

[justbecause421]

You're absolutely right. I responded to her text by telling her I was sending an email and then in the email basically apologized if I had done something to upset her, explained why I had valued her friendship so much over the years, told her I understood that she was going through a lot and respected her need to change things about her life and then told her if she ever changed her mind I would always consider her a friend and that I would welcome contact at anytime. She didn't respond so I have no idea if she read it or just immediately deleted it and depending on her mood it might have made her even more aggravated that I sounded like a self help book (I was trained as a peer mediator in high school and I always sort of slip into that mode) but I decided that I deserved the opportunity to say my piece and that was the best I was going to get under the circumstances