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[june_czarina]

Define sluttiness.

In this day and age, is it still considered slutty for a girl to like sex, and have a lot of it?

How much is too much?

I'd really appreciate a response.

Comments

[liseuse]

1. The character or state of being sluttish; dirtiness; gross slovenliness or untidiness. (OED)
See, nothing to do with sex. Well, not officially anyway.

2. Yes it is still considered slutty. It just shouldn't be. We're back to the age old one rule for boys and one for girls thing. And it's still fucking me off. Or up, one of them.

3. However much the girl thinks is too much. Nothing to do with social definitions or prescribed morality. A purely personal decision.

[june_czarina]

Point Number 3 is interesting.
As discussed with a close friend, although it may still be a 'purely personal decision', that decision does have implications of guilt depending on the ingraining of certain definitions of right and wrong. I could get into a feminist discussion, but I don't have the knowledge to back up what I want to say, in an eloquent way, so we'll leave it there. (For an extension of this post, see my more recent one)

[shaunlamb]

Sluttiness, to me, is having sex with 3 different people on the one set of sheets in any given time frame.

2 people can be by accident (ie - slept with Bill on friday night, forgot to change sheets on saturday, slept with Frederick on saturday night) but you should really change them by the third.

As long as you change your sheets, amount and repetition of sex is fair game.

[june_czarina]

That's exactly what I like to hear. In which case, I'm good. It's funny you mention the whole changing sheets thing - I shagged a suit a week or so ago, worst root of my life, and immediately changed the sheets the next day. Although there wasn't any 'spillage' so to speak, I felt absolutely repulsed that I'd lowered myself down to that grotty, dark, mysterious and quite embarrassing world of suit-shaggage. They're all fucksticks.