New years resolutions

Dec 31, 2022 14:45


I've been making resolutions for maybe 5-6 years now, as long as I've been journaling privately. I try not to make them a to do list, but use them more as setting an intention. Not so much goals, and more processes. Conveniently, I also forget about them about a month after making them, and then I fish them up at the end of the year to see how they ( Read more... )

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stanv December 31 2022, 16:45:53 UTC

Sounds good! If anyone's doing resolutions, I think this is a good way to do them. I hope you look back in them in a year and are content :)

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kerinya January 1 2023, 11:32:27 UTC

Sounds pretty good indeed, I like the legitimacy test! Should help against overshooting and feeling guilty.

Big fan of the advice one. My resolutions this year are to just be which is daunting enough. And then I saw this and now it’s my secondary resolution!


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juleske January 1 2023, 11:34:40 UTC

Those sound like two good ones!

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pluizebol January 2 2023, 06:48:01 UTC

Good luck, these sound like good resolutions indeed!

Also, nice mindmap, quite inspiring. I do feel like I have most of the checkmarks, ? and * opposite from you - which I don't consider either good or bad, more like the "paths not taken" I might have taken in an alternative reality, without being sad about this one. Reflecting upon it, I fear that, in my case, it would be over-ambitious to try and get checkmarks everywhere (I think I'd end up exhausted/disappointed in myself). We have many talks about who one wants to become and making choices with Isolde due to her feeling really bad about not feeling perfect in every possible field, so that might influence my current views, though.

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juleske January 3 2023, 16:39:35 UTC

Meaning is a life time thing, though, right? No need to get them all in one year, then you'd be pretty bored for the rest of your life, I think :D

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