A few thoughts on this: oral doesn't count, I think you should gauge "too many" by the number of years you've been sexually active vs. the number of guys - though I still don't know what exactly constitutes "too many", also, I definitely think that some people go through a phase of packing a lot of them in a short period of time - I went through a period like that when I was like 22-23, and I know other people who went through a similar phase.
I don't really like the number game. I don't care who you've slept with as long as you're STD free. Everyone has a past. Someone's past may be excessive sexually, while someone else may have been excessive with drugs. The past is gone and as long as you're not cheating on me, then I'm cool.
I think number matters. I guess you can take into consideration how early they started, but at this age, it's quite irelevant (unless they just started in the past year or something).
Oral definitely doesn't count. I don't believe in a weighted-point system with one-night stands vs. relationships, etc. A number is a number. I guess the area does get a bit gray when you consider hook-ups more than once and former girlfriends/boyfriends that you hook up with again years later...
Same sex partners count whether you're gay or not. And whether you come or not, of course it still counts!
I wonder if my number would be considered normal or not. Hmm...
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Oral definitely doesn't count. I don't believe in a weighted-point system with one-night stands vs. relationships, etc. A number is a number. I guess the area does get a bit gray when you consider hook-ups more than once and former girlfriends/boyfriends that you hook up with again years later...
Same sex partners count whether you're gay or not. And whether you come or not, of course it still counts!
I wonder if my number would be considered normal or not. Hmm...
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