haha, did you read the book "sex drugs and cocoa puffs"? considering your view you should read that! it's hilarious and wonderful. by chuck klosterman i think
i will have to check that out... maybe i should go to lana for a sexy new haircut . . . i lost a bet to joey last nite, bet him a dollar that he coulndt get into a conversation with these two chicks and their one dood friend, sure enough he went over and next thing we know we were haning out with them and had a conversation . . . then they blew us off... next time i shouldn't bet that they'll blow us off right away, just eventually... it seems nyc girls give you like 3 minutes to impress them while they sit there then they walk away if by some miracle you are not 100% the guy they have planned out they're looking for
well, I don't think people are "planning" so much. perhaps some do. And guys do it too. BUT, I do believe in love at first sight kinda thing. And that's the things you should look into about that book, that fairytale movie drama love does not exist (in his opinion). And that even couples that do have the fairytale romance goin on are all acting out a scene in some dream movie. that they are fake. haha, it could be true, but fuck. I try to make every moment with my man as romantic and sexy as possible, because it's much more fun and creative. so I don't totally agree with the theory. anyhow...I still think you need to just chill a little bit with the finding a girl thing. just relaaaaax. have a beer and enjoy yourself. don't think about what hot ckicks you might see, or who can you talk to, etcetc. just enjoy the moment...ANd you only live once, you don't wanna sit around griping about women rather than being happy with yourself, eh? not trying to critisize
I agree. If people don't give you time then don't give them time back. I poersonally tend to mirror how other's treat me. They give me 5 seconds of their time then that is what i give them. People are only receptive if they want to be.
Take for instance the Gallery that has the "Pamela Anderson" photo exhibit. The girls there gave mke no time or interest. I asked about the printing of the photos. She gave me a curt answer and as I wrote it down she said the guy who print's them is a "good friend" of mine. Big F'n deal!!!!! You make $25 K to sit and surf the web all day in a big drafty gallery. Don't treat me like crap becuase you hate your job. Get some talent and get a good job!
Sorry, a little ranty there.
But anyway, I say go for it. Give people what they give you. If they want to get to know you then they need to make an effort. If not, their loss.
i wasn't gonna tell you how to live. i was just gonna hop up and down chanting "neener neener i knew you'd meet girls and find something to bitch about anyway."
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anyhow...I still think you need to just chill a little bit with the finding a girl thing. just relaaaaax. have a beer and enjoy yourself. don't think about what hot ckicks you might see, or who can you talk to, etcetc. just enjoy the moment...ANd you only live once, you don't wanna sit around griping about women rather than being happy with yourself, eh? not trying to critisize
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I agree. If people don't give you time then don't give them time back. I poersonally tend to mirror how other's treat me. They give me 5 seconds of their time then that is what i give them. People are only receptive if they want to be.
Take for instance the Gallery that has the "Pamela Anderson" photo exhibit. The girls there gave mke no time or interest. I asked about the printing of the photos. She gave me a curt answer and as I wrote it down she said the guy who print's them is a "good friend" of mine. Big F'n deal!!!!! You make $25 K to sit and surf the web all day in a big drafty gallery. Don't treat me like crap becuase you hate your job. Get some talent and get a good job!
Sorry, a little ranty there.
But anyway, I say go for it. Give people what they give you. If they want to get to know you then they need to make an effort. If not, their loss.
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