Let me think.. hmm..

[joshuajackson]

I have a hypothetical question. Suppose there's this guy, and his name is A. He like's someone else who's name is B, but he's scared that B may be intimidated by his behavior and maybe even to the point where B doesn't reciprocate his feelings. Now we throw in the twist, where C likes A but A is scared to get in a relationship with C for reasons,

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[ex_shannyn667]

no, its not obvious. but, i just think if you do not take a chance you'll always be left wondering, and that is just shitty.

[joshuajackson]

That is true, and A really wants a relationship with B the most. A is tempted to plunge but is afraid that B will be scared away.

[ex_shannyn667]

plunge, what do you have to lose

[joshuajackson]

My sanity? My heart? I could end up scarred for life and never be able to date again.

[michelles_lake]

Why is 6 afriad of 7? Because 7 8 9.

Josh I love you, and I think I know what you're talking about, but after reading that I am lost. So that'll be h lost at a about b oh fuck it.

[joshuajackson]

Michelle, A is pretty obvious, B and C should be as well since you know them, and D I told you about last night. As far as F goes, well who knows? A is just really fucked in the head and should be castrated and never allowed to date.

[billy_tallent]

Go for it or you'll always wonder if you could've had something with whoever it is you want. A lifetime of what-ifs and should-haves is no way to live.

[joshuajackson]

A lifetime of scars and pain isn't something either. You see A is scared of getting hurt, A has always been a reclusive person who hides his romantic feelings and usually doesn't act unless he's positive that it's right. I don't know anymore.. love's to confusing for me.

[billy_tallent]

You can't live in fear your whole life, Joshua. I've tried it and it doesn't work. You end up in your apartment lonely and hurting and hating yourself because you never let anyone in, never let anyone close enough to affect you. Sometimes, you just have to take a chance. Take it slow and easy if it helps out, but take the chance if it means that much to you.

[joshuajackson]

Inhibitions have always been my downfall. I've been known to rush into things and so far that hasn't worked at all, actually it's how I ended up with this question in the first place. You see I really did want B but B was hurt in the past and that has left him fairly scarred and that's the reason, at least I think, why he's so inhibitted as well. I started to rush and B pushed me away which ended up making me just as inhibitted, so basically our relationship right now is going at the speed of a baked turtle. I've known C before and we've had shameless on and off dating but why would it work now if it didn't work before? The people were right and it was wrong of me to even think about confessing to D or F, since it would make things ackward between everyone. I wish I could take it slow and easy, but one side of whatever alphabet person above is unwilling, be it me or them.

[rosemcgowan]

I'd say all of those letters are irrelevant because really... it should be J and R that get the hookup. ;)

[joshuajackson]

J and R were in a commercial together I saw earlier, in the meantime J loves R and R loves J so J and R should get married.

[rosemcgowan]

You and me in commercials rock.

You tease. You won't marry me.

[joshuajackson]

You and me rock, even without commercials.

You teased first, you don't love me.

[alyson_h]

.. that's a hell of a lot of letters, dear. o.o

[joshuajackson]

The letter people will take over the world I tell you, I <3 you Aly!