I have a problem with our new trend of slinging around labels like "narcissistic" and "borderline personality" and even "abuse". I had the misfortune to observe up close several relationships that imploded under mutual accusations of abuse and personality disorder labels. And in many of those cases, I got it wrong. I backed the wrong horse. I heard
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I am part of a community that has tried to deal with abuse/consent issues, and almost immediately after we started to examine how to address issues in our community, we had someone who was demonstrably (publicly) abusive claim the role of victim and demand an intervention (where we would somehow force former partners who had finally cut off contact to sit down and "mediate" with the person). We had not tools to deal with that and just stopped trying (for
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Thank you for sharing.
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