I discovered something today. I was making a newbie poly mistake with my monogamous bio-family.
Most of what I learned about polyamory, I actually learned from my monogamous family. For instance, I've written before about how being adopted was a poly analogue - that being adopted taught me the importance of intentional family. My adopted parents did
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Dunno where I stand on the subject, but then again, it's never come up for me as an issue.
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I definitely agree it's useful to look inside rather than outside for that sense of specialness, but I also think that relying on a symbol to feel special is more than that and not the complete picture of what's going on for someone. I think that's just one way people are looking for something a bit more fundamental- acknowledgement.
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