Ah ha! I'm stuck awake way too early on a Saturday morning without my external hard drive that has all the files and projects I'm currently working on. And because it's so fricken early on a Saturday morning, the internet is not sufficiently entertaining me. What a great time to post about a couple of websites currently cluttering up my browser
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However, the risk of partners is unrelated to whether you have them serially or in parallel.
I just don't want people to use testing as a complete substitute for protection if they are going to have a very large number of casual partners. Also, testing is great, but there will always be intervals. So, if you want to have a lot of casual sex, barriers are really, really awesome. You can choose not to - it's a risk assessment and everyone gets to make their own. But it is an easy way to increase the safety of the activity. Testing also increases the safety.
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Second: Oh, science journalism, how I hate you. D:
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(and of course no mention of poly folk, who will no doubt get tarred with the same brush as swingers, but more likely have a lower rate due to conscious attitudes. Bah)
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I don't know how well educated docs are about poly in the US, I guess it would vary from state to state as well. I've had a heck of a time getting UK ones to pay attention to the important facts. The last time I got tested here they made a great fuss over the fact that I had a bisexual male partner, whereas actually my straight male primary partner was engaging in more slutty behaviour with far more people, but I gave up on explaining it in the end and just stated 'I'm getting tested' over and over until it sank in. When people are plainly following a rote system and not using logic, it's tempting just to give up trying to educate.
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