So tell me... is it worse to talk to an ex, i.e someone you've slept with before while you are in a current relationship, or is it worse to constantly be talking about a friend of the opposite sex and "how cute they are" ETC ETC if you've never gone out with them
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Still I have a no new guy friends rule I kind of stick by...of course there are many variables that overrule this rule BUT the starting point is no.
Call me shallow, insecure or whatever, I probably am but that's where I'm at.
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But then I have exes I'm friends with as well as guy friends I've made before and after my relationship started, so I realize it's a double standard. I think most people want to be able to be friends with who they want and still worry when their partner does the same, which is silly.
I think at the end of the day you just have to trust the person. Being jealous usually only makes things worse. My old boyfriend was constantly worried I was going to leave him for someone else, and all that insecurity did was push me away.
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If anything, when you spend time with someone you are attracted to on a platonic basis it solidifies your feelings for the your significant other.
I have girls who are friends and who many would consider attractive that I hang out with. Doesn't mean I am interested in sleeping with them. So I see both sides.
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