hit/yell

Oct 04, 2011 12:18

Between 35 and 50 years ago:
First my dad hit me and yelled at me.

29-30 years ago:
Then my first spouse hit me and yelled at me.

25-2 years ago:
Then my second spouse hit me and yelled at me.

Today:
No more. I am so done with that shit.

girl me, self-esteem, violence against women, healing, family

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cmcmck October 4 2011, 16:34:58 UTC
HUGS

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johanna_hypatia October 5 2011, 04:00:22 UTC
HUGS to you :)

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tanith_astlik October 4 2011, 20:45:16 UTC
Are you OK?

::hugs::

--Worried on the Left Coast

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johanna_hypatia October 5 2011, 03:58:06 UTC
Yes, I'm fine, I was just looking back. It was over 2 years ago I said no more and got out. I've been happy ever since. I just need to go back over my life and heal from so much in the past...

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laura_seabrook October 4 2011, 21:55:30 UTC
what will you do?

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johanna_hypatia October 5 2011, 03:59:25 UTC
I did what I needed to do about it and moved on a couple years ago. Sorry, I didn't mean to give the impression that it was still happening. I probably should have worded it more clearly to that I was referring to the past.

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laura_seabrook October 5 2011, 07:37:01 UTC
well I am relieved that is the case :)

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elenia28 October 5 2011, 00:52:16 UTC
Are you getting some help? You don't have to do this alone. Please take care of yourself. And yes, don't take that shit from him.
Lots of hugs.

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elenia28 October 5 2011, 03:57:00 UTC
elenia28 October 5 2011, 05:03:13 UTC
johanna_hypatia October 5 2011, 13:36:53 UTC
I meant... My dad hit me when I was growing up, my first marriage ended 27 years ago, my second marriage ended 2 years ago. My narrative totally compressed the timeline, didn't it? Whoops.

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charlie_ihsan October 5 2011, 03:10:53 UTC
You deserve someone that treats you well. *hugs*

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