I'm writing this largely with
copperstewart in mind. His explorations in the subject have opened up much for me to ponder about it. This is just to set out some basic concepts that may not be clear to everyone, especially the older generation of hetero people. In my experience it's been mostly older people who question our use of "queer." It may even come
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IMO, people who use the word "genderqueer" are only fooling themselves. Society will bestow a label, whether "male" or "female." You (general you, not a specific person) can call yourself "genderqueer" until you are blue in the face, but the checkout clerk at the grocery store will still call you "sir" or "ma'am." The best society will grant is "androgynous male" or "masculine woman."
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I have to admit this is quite true, sir. In the real world, gender duality dominates, whether we like it or not. Some activists want to change that by changing society. Hey, there has been some social progress with race and feminism-- why not gender? I don't know-- I rather suspect gender is a far more deep-seated and instinctual perception, that is not very susceptible to social change. It triggers much more primal responses in humans, on the level of, for example, the immediate apprehension in one's environment of threat vs. safety, or food vs. not-food.
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But then I'm a very gender-conforming woman, a femme lesbian who outwardly appears straight (except when holding my sweetie's hand as we walk down the street, we've gotten some stares). I haven't challenged that binary gender structure at all, I fit comfortably right into the female half of it. So I don't have the experience to evaluate what it's like to color outside the lines with my gender identity. In my post I tried to give a fair account of the genderqueer phenomenon, even though I don't share in it. I think people need to understand it-- it's going to be significant for society in the future, as so many young people are down with
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Pride, dignity, self-esteem, the power to define ourselves, the power of self-actualization.
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