I need help... Dream meaning? (Unlocked for advice/suggestions)

[jinster_kaze]

Alright, so last year on Valentine's my so called best friend that moved away had her girlfriendgive me a "valentine's" that said that she had "Never really liked me" and blah blah blah. And that "She didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. But now she just doesn't care." I hadn't spoke to that chick since before she moved

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[mitsukai_aka]

jin is it possible that you are dreaming about this because this is what YOU want? Whether she did or did not write out the valentine/note/thing is it possible that making up with her is bugging your subconcious and that it's trying to say "this is what i want to happen"?
Another possiblility is that it could be your subconscious saying that you need to fix it. *shrugs* Just looking at it from a shrink's perspective, hopw it helps cherie!

[jinster_kaze]

XD It actually confirms my own suspcions... However I have no desire to "confront" her at all. It's her loss, and she lost her chance to explain. It's odd that in the dreams she always manages to find me and come back in my life. Which I'd prefer not to happen. It would be making my whole concept difficult...

[shadowjunkie]

All I have to offer is...sometimes hidden meanings aren't all that hidden. And, frankly, from what I've read, the card sounds like the 'girlfriend' 's doing. so...yeah. I got nothin' else.

--Kilroy was here--

[jinster_kaze]

Yes, the entire reading suggested the same thing, as well as a alterior motive e and suggested the friend had no idea. So far no more of the dream though. I think it was just because it was the only issue I never posted on LJ and it was jealous u.u

[etrnlcelticmoon]

Psychologically speaking you're having the dream over and over because subconsciously you aren't actually as over it as you think you are. It's like I can think I'm over what was done to me by some really abusive people years ago. I'm married to a wonderful man now and everything. It's behind me right? But every now and then I'll get this sudden raw emotion about it and I realize that maybe I'm not as over it as I thought I was.

It all comes down to closure. I never had the chance to punch the guy in the face and scream fuck you for what you did to me and look what I have now, it's so much better than you, you sadistic asshole. (See, not over it like I thought I was).

Maybe that's what the whole dream thing is. You lack closure on the situation. You don't know if it was her or her girlfriend that actually said it and that's why you keep having it.