Long Time

[jimboca]

It's been a long time since I've posted. I met someone back in August and we moved in together in September. Unfortunately he has been mentally abusive to me. I feel trapped and I am not allowed to leave the house or speak to any friends. The only time I leave is to go grocery shopping or to get other things he needs. He handles all the

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Huge Hugs

[phenryss]

Hon, get the hell out. My parents had that kind of relationship, and it was saddening and sickening to watch and live thru. Get the hell out. Either do it or I come down there and tap-dance on that sorry bastich's noggin. Capice??? Get a lawyer or talk to the authorities or whatever, just get the HELL OUT. NOW. Not tomorrow...not next week...NOW.

You know, you always have a special place in my heart...

Re: Huge Hugs

[jimboca]

I am trying to leave but I am so afraid. One day he is mentally abusive to me, the next he is nice. I'm so afraid he will get violent if I try to leave.

[garebear]

I was going to call you. I was wondering why I hadn't heard from you.

It's great that you don't have any more debt, but it's not worth it if you're a prisoner. You may have to be straightforward and tell him you need some freedom, you could refuse to give him your check. It all depends on how he got you out of debt so quickly.

Remember, you've always got your mom. She'll understand. Mentally abusive relationship cannot survive. End it now why you still have your sanity; it's better than him leaving you after he's driven you into the mental hospital.

HUGS!

[jimboca]

My mom understands and thinks I should leave too, but i am so afraid to leave. I am afraid he will get physically violent. I am trying.....keep me in your thoughts.

Please! You are NOT

[felixchaser]

Hey ! What happened with that wild Guy i met! You get over this please. You don`t need that, you are human remember.

Ashame to heard all that stuff, painfull, i send you Big Hugs.

Just i receive your coment from your LJ; but since i have BIG troubles on My relationship rigth now i deleted, no big deal with that , hope you don´t mind.

Big hUgs

You okay?

[alejo_pendejo]

Hey you okay? You need to leave that guy if he is mentally abusive and its making you get on drugs like lithium...nothing but more trouble and will create health problems down the road!

I hope your okay.

Re: You okay?

[jimboca]

I'm ok. I am trying to leave but I feel as if I'm trapped. He's done a job on me mentally. Don't worry about the lithium, I'm under a doctor's care and being monitored. I just wish I was strong enough to leave.