( Symbolically relevant moments )

( Chemo days )

( Finding the tumor )

( 2005, and my first experience with death )

( Millennium Eve, and the first hints )

As I write this, it’s exactly one year since Jane died. I’m doing reasonably well, but that’s still not easy, and it drives home that I have some unfinished business. At the funeral and the memorial service, I focused on telling people about how she lived -- that’s the most important part. But I also need to tell the story of how she died ( Read more... )