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[jailecafe]

well i spend half of my time hanging out with my friends who just happen to be guys. they always talk about lines that they get from girls that they are intrested in but wont date them. well i kinda know how you guys feel right now. in the past couple months i have been told by two guys i was dating that they really like me and love spending time

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timing...

[cbisbeezie]

Hi Hi Hi there, with relationships, TIMING is more important than anything. So many things have to be in balance, but timing is probably the most important thing. For example, if both of us just broke up, and neither of us want to get hurt, the likelihood of us to start a relationship in the beginning is not very good. We'll both be standoffish. Most relationships usually succeed because someone has been hurt several times, and a girl/guy treats them better than they've ever been treated before; so the hurtee feels this person could never hurt them, and thus, decides to begin a journey into relationship land. Relationship land is like being in a Six Flags theme park, it has EXTREME highs and lows like the Roller Coasters, but overall, it's far more safe and happy when you're there. Unfortunately, many people don't realize that they're happy until hindsight. That's my take.....

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[jailecafe]

thanks chris <3

[dillslap]

yeah i hear you
i'm also tired of "i just wanna be friends"