Comments | ivy_chan: the arc of my grieving

ivy_chan

the arc of my grieving

Jul 05, 2009 11:43

My sister and I had a huge fight that turned physical, and now she's moved out with her boyfriend. I think I give up. I think this is it for us. Neither of us can keep our temper, and we just can't understand each other. She can't and won't understand me, and she seems to have decided she can lecture me and treat me like a doormat. I spent ( Read more... )

depressed, real life, family

Comments 12

redbrunja July 5 2009, 17:01:17 UTC

I am so sorry that happened to you.

It all sounds so horrible.

ivy_chan July 6 2009, 00:55:37 UTC

Thanks. I'm beginning to feel better now- my mom and my sister seem to support me, and I think my parents are understanding how dramatically unstable Nicole can be.

redbrunja July 6 2009, 05:30:07 UTC

That's really good.

lvsinsanity July 5 2009, 17:05:31 UTC

*hugs* Not much else I could think of to say really..

ivy_chan July 6 2009, 00:56:20 UTC

Thanks. *hug* I kind of wish I could 'fast forward' life sometimes. You know, to a few weeks from now.

whiteadelphi July 5 2009, 17:20:11 UTC

Ouch, hon. For what it's worth, I'm sorry. That's really shitty. *wince* Can't swoop down on you with hugs, but I can leave you a virtual one? --> *hug!*

ivy_chan July 6 2009, 00:57:23 UTC

Thanks. T_T Virtual hugs are pretty awesome, too.

dinpik July 5 2009, 20:54:39 UTC

I'm so sorry this happened to you, Ivy. I wish there was something I could do.

*hugs*

ivy_chan July 6 2009, 00:57:49 UTC

*hugs* All these e-hugs are really making me feel better.

brownie_utonium July 5 2009, 21:53:11 UTC

She might not be gone for good. From what it sounds like, I don't know if you guys will ever really be on good terms (at least, not in the near future) but it would probably be for the best if she moved back (it's probably a better environment for Gabe if nothing else) and you moved out. You need to get away from those two insane family members and be able to express yourself without being stifled.

As far as love goes, I know it sounds corny, but you an find it in the most unexpected places. It's not unattainable. But it hurts most when it doesn't come from the people we want it from. Sadly, I don't know what advice to give on that. =/

ivy_chan July 6 2009, 01:04:26 UTC

She's probably going to move back at some point. Maybe living with the dude will help tune her into his flaws. My mom will most likely work on her until she caves. As for me moving out, I intend to once the job situation stabilizes. Patrick suggested I go to a temp agency to get my experience, and then I can get a better clerical/administrative job.