Love you forever

[iviolinist]

As you will recall if you followed my Christmas Saga and entries previous to that, my grandpa (mom's dad) has been sick for quite awhile. It was really hard on him to lose his independence since he was always such a strong, stubborn, vital man. He finally had to go into a nursing home for rehab purposes in December. He was about to be released in

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[hwimsey]

After I stopped crying I began to write this. You are such an amazing person -- I am in awe. You are so wise beyond your years -- I'm so proud of you.

You wrote of this experience with such love -- and so beautifully - I felt I was there -- and I wish there was someway I could be. Such love and support -- that we should all be so blessed at our moment of passing.

Between exhaustion and the "business" of dying you must be frayed -- I often think that funeral rituals are created to get us through it -- something to focus our energies on. And that may not be a bad thing. Like boiling water when a baby is born.

Please let me know how I can help. Anything you need or want, I'll move the moon if possible. Just know that I wish I could share the burden in some way.

You are my idol, girl. My idol.

Love,
S.

[girlspell]

Very, very sorry for your loss. He must had a good life, he certainly had a good family behind him. If you're going to go, you should go with your family around you. Don't dwell too much on the sadness. Just think of the good times with him