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[its_a_travesty]

I'm so afraid he's  gonna get tired of me. I don't know how to get the thoughts out of my head; I'm obsessing. I saw him Tuesday-Wednesday; I haven't talked to him since then though. I get so worried about that... but when I'm with him all those thoughts fly out of my mind. What do I do? How do I convince myself that everything's cool and he's just

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[thennicollesaid]

hmm. i don't really have any helpful hints. i have those insecurities too when i haven't talked to the guy i'm with/like for a while. It's hard to bring them up for discussion or even remember them when you finally do see him. It's like you think to yourself "i'm going to tell him he better call me more the next time I see him" but then can't even remember why you were upset once he's there. Ah boys. I guess just keep an eye out for how busy he is vs. how much he contacts you. If he works all day and has other stuff to do during the night then it makes sense why he can't talk to you as much, but if he doesn't do that much then it may (but not necessarily!) be a sign that he doesn't like you as much. He may just be afraid to seem too clingy though. I dunno. I told you...I'm not very helpful.

[cucrew]

I have no idea.
What's been your arrangement so far? Does he always call you, do you always call him, or has it been somewhat of a mix? Maybe if he's the one always calling you, he feels like you don't like him that much and you should call him more. Other than that though, I got nothin. Hm...sorry. But I'm glad things have been good while you're together.