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ithisia

In a nutshell - thoughts on a new dog, just thoughts in general.

Feb 09, 2011 11:36

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nobodyberry February 9 2011, 20:27:15 UTC

That's a good point you make about Jim being the one who really wants the puppy. And it seems as though Jim has his animal companion at this point in time. I think you mentioned once that you tend to favor purebreds (or maybe I'm just making that up), but I would recommend at least visiting some rescue organizations. Spending time with those animals will benefit them no matter what, and it may help you figure out what you are ultimately looking for.

Purebreds ithisia February 9 2011, 23:31:20 UTC

Typically I haven't gone the rescue option for a few reasons (unlike kitties, dogs who end up in the rescue places tend to be imbalanced). Dogs show their emotional problems differently of course ( ... )

Re: Purebreds nobodyberry February 10 2011, 21:11:01 UTC

Well, rescue kitties can certainly have their share of issues. This I know from experience. But yes, that is a valid concern regardless.

(And no, I did not know about your previous rescue dog! Fun fact!)

I do certainly believe there will be a right dog and a right time, both of which you will know. But visiting a good, no-kill shelter can be very therapeutic for all involved, especially when you're not sure you want to commit just yet. We have a lot of people come in where I volunteer, simply to get their "kitty fix."

And maybe doing a visit like that with Jim would help you find an example of what you're really wanting and convey that to him. "See Jim, this age/size/etc is similar to what I would like..."