Ah geez - I'm so sorry. Maybe the info he read will stay in the back of his mind and help him out down the road - whatever the relationship is like, something hit a nerve. {hug}
Sometimes you have to hit bottom really hard before you're willing to look at your life and go "well that is really fucked up" and until then it can be really hard to look at things from any other point of view then the one you have going. It'll probably take a while for him to realize that things aren't working and won't work no matter how hard he tries to make them. I'm sorry there's so much drama and that it's so hard. *hugs* He'll want the help eventually
Ahh I'm sorry. It's the worst thing to have people freaking out at you like that.
*super hugs* Well, I hope your acknowledging things (not even directly) will either help him realize his situation, or let him know that in the future, he really can come to you for help.
Don't beat yourself up about it. It might have been scary, but I believe we need to speak up, even a little, when people we love are unhappy.
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Who knows, though. It's just too bad that he decided to lay the blame and anger on you. Much love and good energies to you and the whole family.
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It'll probably take a while for him to realize that things aren't working and won't work no matter how hard he tries to make them.
I'm sorry there's so much drama and that it's so hard.
*hugs*
He'll want the help eventually
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*super hugs* Well, I hope your acknowledging things (not even directly) will either help him realize his situation, or let him know that in the future, he really can come to you for help.
Don't beat yourself up about it. It might have been scary, but I believe we need to speak up, even a little, when people we love are unhappy.
Love you!
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