And he can offer nothing but... well, it was life.

[itew]

Alex broke up with me last Tuesday. It was both unexpected and not (unexpected but probably imminent? Unexpected but likely to be an issue

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[ellenmillion]

You are decidedly NOT an "utter shit." I'm sorry that things didn't work out... I'm sure there's a platitude about things being for the best that is appropriate here. *Sends kittens. And chocolate.*

[itew]

there is. It is pretty much that it was all for the best. We had both healed enough that the webbing of the scars was starting to hurt. But I would rather neither the public humiliation (being dumped via facebook status change, without my knowledge, while away), or the resultant recriminations. Or the vast majority of my friends having decided that I am a saint or a demon.

but yes, as I said to a nice young man, immediately afterwards, next time I love anyone they're getting the pre-emptive reverse bel-air
http://xkcd.com/464/

[chess]

These kittens don't think you're an utter shit: http://www.daphnesdolls.com/rose_and_tiger_lily.jpg

[itew]

they don't. They are that rare thing, a non judgemental kitten. Impossibly, beautifully rare