you can disregard my previous comments. i got an email from that girl tonight saying she's not ready to date right now whatever that means. i'm 99% sure she isn't fresh out of a relationship. it just frustrates me when someone is on lavalife and says they're not interested in a relationship. it's happend to me 3 times now. you know, don't actively seek out a relationship and then say you don't want one. i either meet the sketchiest girls in the world...or i keep doing something wrong. maybe everyone on there is pretty flakey to begin with, i don't know. it's just hard to believe someone when they say they don't want to be in a relationship, yet they've been seeking one
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haha... it is like you have a secret journal, that lives in my comments... I love it.
I am sorry about this chick... I have to admit, I have been on a couple lava dates recently... same deal, one guy just suddenly pulled the 'this is too intense' card on me, um... after one date and a couple MSN chats... meanwhile HE was the one who kept IMing me, telling me about his life... what can you do... I have to believe that there is someone out there, and I want to find him... not because I cannot be alone, but because, like you, I am interested in having a relationship... I am just not ready to publicly post about a guy now until there is something worth posting... haha... 3 date minimum before you make it into the journal.
i noticed that i wrote that comment like a journal entry...but i don't mind since i only really wanted to mention that stuff to you since i know you're in the same boat. that's so annoying when someone is the one initiating conversations with you and then says it's too intense. i just don't buy people's excuses for being weird about relationships...everyone's been hurt, everyone's been led, jerked around, been the receiptiant of mind games, whatever... it doesn't give you an excuse to be sketchy and back away. i've had it all happen to me and i come from a family with divorced parents... but i really don't think that has made me less likely to commit or scared to commit, nor does it give me a reason to jerk girls around. if you do that stuff, you're just a bad person.
that's a good method for not writing about people in here...or even giving someone too much tought/expecting anything. maybe it's pessimistic but i feel like that just sets you up for disappointment.
no, I like that you are mentioning it here, nice to know the world is not made of happy couples, cause that is what it feels like sometimes...
even though I have come up with a method for keeping people who are not worh the mention out of my journal, it doesn't keep me from getting disappointed, or thinking about them too much... that is just me though, when I am into something, I am all in... probably a HUGE part of my problem.
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I am sorry about this chick... I have to admit, I have been on a couple lava dates recently... same deal, one guy just suddenly pulled the 'this is too intense' card on me, um... after one date and a couple MSN chats... meanwhile HE was the one who kept IMing me, telling me about his life... what can you do... I have to believe that there is someone out there, and I want to find him... not because I cannot be alone, but because, like you, I am interested in having a relationship... I am just not ready to publicly post about a guy now until there is something worth posting... haha... 3 date minimum before you make it into the journal.
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that's a good method for not writing about people in here...or even giving someone too much tought/expecting anything. maybe it's pessimistic but i feel like that just sets you up for disappointment.
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even though I have come up with a method for keeping people who are not worh the mention out of my journal, it doesn't keep me from getting disappointed, or thinking about them too much... that is just me though, when I am into something, I am all in... probably a HUGE part of my problem.
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