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[inzomniak]

I guess you'll want my side of the story! Things are going to be hard, nothing is ever easy in life, but nothing compares to the thought of not being able to be with the person you love! Yesterday she told me that she didn't want to move out here anymore! Her reason was her kids and their family, so of course I didn't have any argument for that...

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[smbsmacksmb]

I replied on Sandras LJ but it kinda relates then to your post. I think you guys shouldn't just up and vanish on each other. I think perhaps another get together maybe in your hometown would be good. Let Sandra see what it's like over by you...unless I'm out of the loop and she's been there already. Anyways, I wouldn't throw in the towel just yet on each other.

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[inzomniak]

No she hasn't been here yet! We had planned on it though, and hell no, I'm not giving up yet! I love her far too much to let her go that easy!

[suitepee43]

There seems to be so much love between you that you mustn't give up. I haven't read Sandra's part yet, but I'd say just hold back and take things more slowly. Don't decide to make any life changing moves just yet. Keep up the communication as much as you can, and maybe saying how you feel will become easier. Keep talking! that's the key. I find it easier too to express my feelings online; I have a job telling my husband I love him; it's hard to get the words out yet I mean them.
It's totally understandable that you don't want to go through pain again. I still think you're so good for each other and could have a future. I hope it works out honey. If you ever need to talk, you can PM me on Ives board. Either you or Sandra.