Some days are tougher than others.

May 15, 2013 20:35

Today was an uphill kind of day. I didn't get the balance of planning and focus right and was on the back foot all day. I want to be such a good parent and it annoys me when I know I could do better ( Read more... )

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ingenue_the May 15 2013, 20:55:05 UTC
Skills swap. Totally.
Next time we share kid space at either house, I'm happy roll out a craft project for them. If you want to bake with Henry he'll love you for ever!

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ingenue_the May 15 2013, 20:55:40 UTC
... and thank you. You too. (You do know that, right?)

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november_girl May 16 2013, 23:27:24 UTC
Don't beat yourself up about it. If you have even some well planned, well executed days then you're doing better than the majority of us. And what really matters is that you give him your time and love - even if you feel relief when you shut the door on him at night. I think that happens to most of us to a greater or lesser extent - it doesn't make us bad parents (I hope!).

And "time consuming tedium of creating so much chaos" - what a perfect and picturesque way to sum up looking after a little one.

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ingenue_the May 17 2013, 09:49:39 UTC
Although I meant that phrase about the baking specifically, now you've pointed it out, it does sum up a goodly portion of child care. I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels that way.

I did read something about raising kids the other day that really touched me. "The days are long, but the years are short". So true.

Looking forward to seeing you at the weekend!

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