pruning...

Apr 15, 2008 14:14

so, i'm always a little weirded out when people de-friend me, but don't really say anything about the why part...which just happened to me ( Read more... )

friends, de-friending

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flutimcflute April 15 2008, 22:20:25 UTC
I just pruned too. It amazes me how many people don't update for years and don't just delete their journals. Not that I'm that good on updating but I try and talk to people!

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indiefishsteak April 15 2008, 22:23:52 UTC
yeah, if i were going to stop updating, it would feel weird to just let it hang out there...

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pat_trick April 15 2008, 22:42:38 UTC
one thing that's often brought up is the way that the term "friends" isn't really an accurate one when it comes to lj, especially its application to the term "defriending". just because someone removes you from their flist doesn't necessarily mean they're no longer your friend.

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indiefishsteak April 15 2008, 22:50:42 UTC
this is very true, and true of the people i removed. actually many of them are now on myspace, and if i want to interact online with them outside of im and email i have to go there...and i hate myspace :P

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barefooted_baby April 16 2008, 17:22:18 UTC
I do read your journal, I guess I just have a hard time putting anything into words for me to update mine [I suck at remembering things like that too].

Anyway, it's good to keep updated on you and tim, mostly because I suck at calling/emailing, etc.

:(

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indiefishsteak April 16 2008, 18:03:39 UTC
no worries. it hasn't been a year since you updated/talked to me. but it's good to know you read it :)

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