We both used to fret about it, too, when we skipped a few days, but we know now that it's simply how much energy/time we have and how often we do it says nothing about how much we care for each other.
totally agree. i used to think that infrequent sex meant something bad, but it TOTALLY depends on the other aspects of the relationship.
Haha see, I always wonder if this is a question people will answer honestly. Because who wants to admit to being asexual?
My answer... Hmm... Depends on the work & stressload. This is, hands-down (x1,000,000) my healthiest sexual relationship ever. Probably 4x a week, give or take, and it hasn't waned at all over the months. In fact, I think things are better now than they were in the beginning.
i ask because i was just curious. i was hoping the friends of mine with kids would respond, but there's still time!
as for will and i, it's always varied. my sex drive is always high and always has been. it's gotten a little higher since i've started hormones, but seems to have leveled off nicely. i'm no longer interested in humping everything i see. as for will, before he started hormones, his sex drive was low because of a medication he takes but since starting hormones, it's risen nicely. :) so, we used to have sex about 1-2 times every week and a half or so (not including the beginning of our relationship) and now maybe 1-3 times a week, including weekends. it just depends. :)
We actually have a futon and a daybed down there (it's semi-finished and also serves as a guest room- once we change the sheets). I just prefer the floor, so we usually end up there.
I have a pretty crazy sex drive. Geo's the only guy who's ever been able to keep up with me. Plus he's really cool and I like him quite a bit. It works out well. :)
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totally agree. i used to think that infrequent sex meant something bad, but it TOTALLY depends on the other aspects of the relationship.
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My answer... Hmm... Depends on the work & stressload. This is, hands-down (x1,000,000) my healthiest sexual relationship ever. Probably 4x a week, give or take, and it hasn't waned at all over the months. In fact, I think things are better now than they were in the beginning.
Why do you ask?
And what's your answer to this Q?
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i ask because i was just curious. i was hoping the friends of mine with kids would respond, but there's still time!
as for will and i, it's always varied. my sex drive is always high and always has been. it's gotten a little higher since i've started hormones, but seems to have leveled off nicely. i'm no longer interested in humping everything i see. as for will, before he started hormones, his sex drive was low because of a medication he takes but since starting hormones, it's risen nicely. :) so, we used to have sex about 1-2 times every week and a half or so (not including the beginning of our relationship) and now maybe 1-3 times a week, including weekends. it just depends. :)
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Maybe you should invest in a small bed or even just a mattress for the basement...
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I have a pretty crazy sex drive. Geo's the only guy who's ever been able to keep up with me. Plus he's really cool and I like him quite a bit. It works out well. :)
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