For Those With Questions...

[iamcompufrog]

Some Painful Answers

1) Unless a miracle or three happens in the next 72 hours, the mortgage company intends to sell our house out from underneath us (aka foreclose) on April 11. That will very likely happen.  I no longer have much faith in miracles.

2) It means that we will have to be packed and out of here, and hopefully have someplace to go, by

Comments

[galen_dp]

The funeral will be as private as it can be but I am sure there will be too many in attendence. I would prefer it to be "closed casket" - the marriage is pretty well decayed and doesn't look very good. The "remains" should not be seen.

I would tend to think of it more as a cremation followed by a wake :).

Anyway, we will do what we can to help. I can't be down there every weekend, but I will see about helping.

[iamcompufrog]

Not hot enough for cremation. But a HellUvA wake, sometime later this year, might be an interesting idea.

Thank you for the offer of help. It is gratefully accepted.

[teal_cuttlefish]

***Hugs***

I'm afraid I can't help with packing, but I should be able to loan you a family member or two.

As always, I am here to listen any time you need it.

Going through foreclosure and bankruptcy is survivable, and does take some of the pressure off. We've been there, done that, got the T-shirt.

Things will get better.

[iamcompufrog]

I see said the blind man to his deaf son.
AKA - thank you.

If it were just the bankruptcy and foreclosure, and not a divorce and all the hassles of that, too... it wouldn't be quite so bad. It would be Bad, but not BAD.

But you understand.

[teal_cuttlefish]

Yes, of course. But as you know, it is all ultimately survivable.

And we will still be here.

[iamcompufrog]

Life is a game one can not win.

But, according to the rules, one may try for continuous extended play.

Survival odds, overall, one in several billion. Chances for extended play, however, improve daily.

Whether one WISHES to continue to play is, alas, the problem.
So far, I keep looking for the "resurrection" spells, extra lives, and all the gaming points I can find.

Ooops... damn, that was Mario!

[minnesattva]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Wishing you the best, whatever that ends up being. :-)

[iamcompufrog]

Thank you kindly. I appreciate the wishes and shall take advantage of them.

All will change. Now it is just whether I can get what I need done in the time available.

All you have to do is call and I'll be there, yes I will....

[mythicsagefire]

I really wish I could offer you a miracle today.... {{HUGS!}}

What things do you need to help you move?
An organizer? or do you have a plan of what must you have and what things you want to have?
Do you need boxes?
It obvious, you need a place - in the Springs? Or could you move north or elsewhere?

Thor and I can certainly help out with packing and moving some - I cannot move heavy things though but I am willing to lend what ever support you need.

Re: All you have to do is call and I'll be there, yes I will....

[iamcompufrog]

Thank you lovely lady. Virtual hugs are awfully good, too

[gentleman_lech]

Let me know when moving day is, and I'll try to provide some labor, even if it's just me.

And board gaming this month is on the 14th, assuming the girls are interested. (I'm sure you'd be welcome, too, if you're not already occupied.)