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[hypatia42]

I feel like I need a word coined for the opposite sort of empathy feeling that compersion indicates. Everything I have seen says that compersion is all about happy and joy and I need one that is feeling sad when someone you love feels sad. It is also a strange feeling to want to talk to someone and say things like, "How on earth would you think it

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[rowangolightly]

Yes, that's scarily not normal; glad you're getting it checked out soonest.

You miss the ocean; I miss the mountains. And I miss you, oddly enough, which is not to say that I think you're a mountain. Just in case you wondered.

I wanna get to more cons but ach, money. *sigh*

[hypatia42]

I miss you too. Travel is spendy for sure. I hope to get back to town soonish but I am not sure when that will be. I will let you know.

Thinking about costuming again. *sigh* I have sewing skills but I use my body for so many things at this point it is getting to the point where I have to prioritize. :-/ TeslaCon has a color palate. Most of which looks terrible on me but I have fabric that doesn't currently have a purpose that I could purpose for this. ...Like I need another thing to spend time on.

I miss the mountains in a completely different way than I miss the ocean. Ideally I would have both. The Pacific Northwest is good for that. I also know that moving more than a day's drive from KC will not be happening anytime before Michael's parents pass on.

[rowangolightly]

I now have more fabric in colors I don't normally use, thanks to inheriting Jeannie Dybdah's stash. Dammit, every time I refer to it I just wish I could have HER back instead; guess that's part of the grieving process.

But anyway, I now have red/burgundy fabrics that I won't use that you may, if that leans toward the color palate to which you're referring.

Oddly enough, I'm happily a plains sort of gal by nature but I like my diversity, too.

[hypatia42]

http://teslacon.com/site/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/color-palette1.jpg is the color palette for the con this year. Its not my colors really.

Red and burgundy usually are colors I do better with.

*hugs*

[amandajayne98]

*hugs* Female bits are the suck.

Glad you got to visit the ocean, but sorry you have to come back to the midwest.

[fairgoldberry]

I am glad you're going to the doctor, but I have one other thing to throw into the mix of considerations. I had a similar issue with spotting after sex, accompanied by sort of a tender, sticky feeling. It turns out that most lubes that don't say 100% silicone on them contain propylene glycol. I am very sensitive to PG, and the sensitivity's increased over time and exposure. Have you started using any new products in the last month?

Also, *hugs*.

Much love,
Rowan