Stamped as Remus and Fleur//Matchmaker Theme
Name: Vanessah
Previously stamped as: Remus Lupin and Fleur Delacour
Would you prefer a male or female match, or both? both, please! (I'm greedy like that~)
About You
Positive qualities: Honest, intelligent, caring, helpful. I work hard (when I'm not being lazy; see below). I love to learn to do things, like speak different languages and play instruments, though I'm often too impatient to actually learn entirely. I like meeting new people. I'm generally reliable, you can count on me when you need me to come through for you.
Negative qualities: I'm a bit (a very big bit) of a procrastinator. I tend to shut myself off from the world around me; I love my me-time a little too much, sometimes. I'm rather stubborn and easily fall into comfortable routines and dislike when those routines are disturbed. I have a slightly addictive personality (I have to be careful with mood-altering substances like alcohol; I'm a bit of a gambler). I can be very messy (though it usually is, well, an ordered mess; I can find at least most of my stuff, usually). I can be lazy if I'm not actively pushed to do work.
Describe your personality in a nutshell:
I find it difficult sometimes to describe myself, but this is pretty much me:
"INFPs are introspective, private, creative and highly idealistic individuals that have a constant desire to be on a meaningful path. They are driven by their values and seek peace. Empathetic and compassionate, they want to help others and humanity as a whole. INFPs are imaginative, artistic and often have a talent for language and writing. They can also be described as easygoing, selfless, guarded, patient and loyal."
I'm an Enneagram type 9, with 2 following closely.
This or That: Your Match
Brave or Safe: Brave
Optimistic or Pessimistic: optimistic
Realistic or Idealistic: realistic (we'd have enough idealism with me around~ XD)
Introverted or Extroverted: Extroverted, but not, like, YEAH LET'S GO PARTY EVERY WEEKEND, 'cause I'm not a crowd person. So, like, somewhere in the middle.
Stoic or Emotional: Hmmm, stoic. I'm incredibly emotional, and I find being in a relationship with other emotional people difficult.
Trusting or Cynical: Trusting
Cheerful or Melancholy: Cheerful
Brains or Brawn: Brains. Smart people are hot.
Impulsive or Cautious: Impulsive
Modest or Vain: Modest
Uptight or Laidback: Laid-back. I'm pretty aimless, I would drive an orderly, uptight person insane.
Shy or Outgoing: Outgoing, but see Introverted/Extroverted.
Funny or Serious: Funny! Nothing wins me over faster than a sense of humor.
Your Match
What are some traits that you find appealing in a match? Like I said above, I love a sense of humor. I rarely get serious about things unless the situation calls for it. I tend to date people who are as laid-back as I tend to be, though usually a little less scatter-brained. I find intelligence to be a turn-on.
What traits can you simply NOT tolerate? Cynicism, easy-to-anger, snobby or egotistical, too serious (can't take a joke at least every now and then).
Describe your ideal relationship: An equal and honest one. We both know where we stand with each other, and feel comfortable going to each other when something's wrong. We support each other, whether financially or emotionally. Respect is very important.
What is the most important aspect of a relationship to you? The connection, emotional and physical. I can't do the long-distance thing. I have to feel connected to the person I'm with. If we're not on the same level (like in my last relationship, he was in love and I certainly wasn't) then we have to work through it before we can move forward.
Who do you think would be an awful match for you and why? Any of the Death Eaters, definitely. I don't find hatred attractive at all. Snape, he's far too abrasive for me. I would probably find Hermione a little annoying, personally. She likes things in a very particular order, and I'm more of an "it goes wherever it lands when I drop it" kind of person.
Three (or more!) Votes:
http://community.livejournal.com/hp_stamps/84021.html?thread=792885#t792885
http://community.livejournal.com/hp_stamps/90807.html?thread=871607#t871607
http://community.livejournal.com/hp_stamps/90491.html?thread=872571#t872571
Previously stamped as: Remus Lupin and Fleur Delacour
Would you prefer a male or female match, or both? both, please! (I'm greedy like that~)
About You
Positive qualities: Honest, intelligent, caring, helpful. I work hard (when I'm not being lazy; see below). I love to learn to do things, like speak different languages and play instruments, though I'm often too impatient to actually learn entirely. I like meeting new people. I'm generally reliable, you can count on me when you need me to come through for you.
Negative qualities: I'm a bit (a very big bit) of a procrastinator. I tend to shut myself off from the world around me; I love my me-time a little too much, sometimes. I'm rather stubborn and easily fall into comfortable routines and dislike when those routines are disturbed. I have a slightly addictive personality (I have to be careful with mood-altering substances like alcohol; I'm a bit of a gambler). I can be very messy (though it usually is, well, an ordered mess; I can find at least most of my stuff, usually). I can be lazy if I'm not actively pushed to do work.
Describe your personality in a nutshell:
I find it difficult sometimes to describe myself, but this is pretty much me:
"INFPs are introspective, private, creative and highly idealistic individuals that have a constant desire to be on a meaningful path. They are driven by their values and seek peace. Empathetic and compassionate, they want to help others and humanity as a whole. INFPs are imaginative, artistic and often have a talent for language and writing. They can also be described as easygoing, selfless, guarded, patient and loyal."
I'm an Enneagram type 9, with 2 following closely.
This or That: Your Match
Brave or Safe: Brave
Optimistic or Pessimistic: optimistic
Realistic or Idealistic: realistic (we'd have enough idealism with me around~ XD)
Introverted or Extroverted: Extroverted, but not, like, YEAH LET'S GO PARTY EVERY WEEKEND, 'cause I'm not a crowd person. So, like, somewhere in the middle.
Stoic or Emotional: Hmmm, stoic. I'm incredibly emotional, and I find being in a relationship with other emotional people difficult.
Trusting or Cynical: Trusting
Cheerful or Melancholy: Cheerful
Brains or Brawn: Brains. Smart people are hot.
Impulsive or Cautious: Impulsive
Modest or Vain: Modest
Uptight or Laidback: Laid-back. I'm pretty aimless, I would drive an orderly, uptight person insane.
Shy or Outgoing: Outgoing, but see Introverted/Extroverted.
Funny or Serious: Funny! Nothing wins me over faster than a sense of humor.
Your Match
What are some traits that you find appealing in a match? Like I said above, I love a sense of humor. I rarely get serious about things unless the situation calls for it. I tend to date people who are as laid-back as I tend to be, though usually a little less scatter-brained. I find intelligence to be a turn-on.
What traits can you simply NOT tolerate? Cynicism, easy-to-anger, snobby or egotistical, too serious (can't take a joke at least every now and then).
Describe your ideal relationship: An equal and honest one. We both know where we stand with each other, and feel comfortable going to each other when something's wrong. We support each other, whether financially or emotionally. Respect is very important.
What is the most important aspect of a relationship to you? The connection, emotional and physical. I can't do the long-distance thing. I have to feel connected to the person I'm with. If we're not on the same level (like in my last relationship, he was in love and I certainly wasn't) then we have to work through it before we can move forward.
Who do you think would be an awful match for you and why? Any of the Death Eaters, definitely. I don't find hatred attractive at all. Snape, he's far too abrasive for me. I would probably find Hermione a little annoying, personally. She likes things in a very particular order, and I'm more of an "it goes wherever it lands when I drop it" kind of person.
Three (or more!) Votes:
http://community.livejournal.com/hp_stamps/84021.html?thread=792885#t792885
http://community.livejournal.com/hp_stamps/90807.html?thread=871607#t871607
http://community.livejournal.com/hp_stamps/90491.html?thread=872571#t872571