Comments | hikari87: well now

hikari87

well now

Apr 03, 2012 15:22

Sunday evening, my friend/roommate out of the blue told me she didn't want to be friends anymore. She spent a lot of time sort of repeating herself without actually saying anything, but what it boiled down to is that she doesn't like me anymore and she doesn't care that she doesn't like me anymore. I asked her why and first she said that she can't ( Read more... )

drama, friends, house

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five2midnight April 4 2012, 02:48:31 UTC

This.

It sucks when people won't even tell you a real reason for ditching you, but at least you know from the way she handled it that the friendship isn't really salvageable, so that you can spend your time making new friends/finding a new place to live rather than wasting it trying to win her over again.

hikari87 April 4 2012, 14:55:57 UTC

I'm going to move back into the college dorms after summer, most of my friends live there during the school year so it'll be fun. And I won't have to see her again after that, lol. Idk what her deal is, apparently she does this kind of thing fairly often according to our other friend.

five2midnight April 4 2012, 15:12:03 UTC

That's pretty weird. It seems like throwing friendships away like that would be pretty emotionally draining.

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Dont worry about a thing, cause every little thing gonna be all right. psychoticash April 4 2012, 02:05:57 UTC

I really hope things get better for you. I don't really know you very well but I do read your posts, and you seem very mature and able to express your feelings through words.
It's hard to take these things, I understand.
You may have lost a friend, and in those 4 months over lease, you may still be able to fix the relationship.
Or, you will meet even more, better friends in the future.
And that alone is enough to look forward to. (:

Re: Dont worry about a thing, cause every little thing gonna be all right. hikari87 April 4 2012, 14:57:50 UTC

well, I think she's decided to call it quits permanently, but according to my other friend who's known her for a while, she does this kind of thing fairly regularly, where she ditches someone after a while. Idk what her deal is, but after summer I'm moving back into the college dorms, most of my friends live there during the school year so that'll be fun at least.

Re: Dont worry about a thing, cause every little thing gonna be all right. psychoticash April 4 2012, 16:14:08 UTC

That does sound like fun. (:
I'm glad everything is working out for you.