Comments | hieis_girl1: *Angst*

hieis_girl1

Angst

Oct 24, 2006 02:47

OMFG!!!! I can't believe my mom! I finally told her that I'm bi, and what does she do? She doesn't beleive me because I 'haven't shown any signs'. Want to know why I haven't? Because I've been hiding it from you because I knew you'd react like this!!! And I over heard my parents talking about it. My mom said that if I don't change, then she ( Read more... )

parents, sexuality, life sucks

Comments 8

lucas_in_308 October 24 2006, 04:15:18 UTC

Hey caitlin. It's me, Lucas! I'm really sorry that your mom is fucking isane :/

thebigpicture October 24 2006, 12:28:06 UTC

My parents ignore it. but whenever I bring over my friends that are girls I can't shut the door

rosien_hoh October 24 2006, 14:12:56 UTC

well its the same with me when i bring girls over...((being a guy))
so thats not that unusual or rediculous

thebigpicture October 24 2006, 17:54:27 UTC

No, I am allowed to keep the door closed when guys are over, but not girls. I would think they would mind me fooling around with girls. Since you know, they can't get me pregnant and all

rosien_hoh October 24 2006, 19:42:23 UTC

lol yeah you'd think....
but we al know parents arent that smart sometimes

phoenix_tempest October 25 2006, 02:50:12 UTC

God, that's...strange.
But, I'm 20 and haven't told my parents yet.
My mom didn't believe me because of the same reason your mom gave. Being Bi or Gay may be a 'psychological imbalance' but it's not a psychosis! We're NOT insane, people.
I haven't told my dad, because he already thinks I hate him. That would just...confirm it.

xanith_vash October 25 2006, 16:59:54 UTC

They can threaten to kick you out, but you can always threaten to move out too.

I've never been the one for the normal plan on these sorts of things, but I'm assuming you could do independent study for the classes required to graduate, graduate and get a job and move in with friends/find some roomate and spend a few years saving up some money and then move onto college when you're 21 or so. The graduation thing should only take 2-3 months if you work through it quickly.

Here's how I see it. Everything that you are told has 3-4 choices. Belive it, disbelive it, do it, or reject it. On everything you are told to do or told exists, these options are there. Even if "do it" or "belive it" seem like the only ones, you still have more.

hieis_girl1 October 25 2006, 17:37:50 UTC

you guys are so awesome! I wish my parents (at least my mom) was more accepting like you all are.