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Jan 08, 2012 20:55

Okay, I'm living in Portland ( Read more... )

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kriz1818 January 9 2012, 12:20:48 UTC
I'm going to have to remember that about book weight, if I ever have to hire professional movers. So far we've been able to depend on the kindness of friends and relatives.

Funny ... they always mention the weight of the books too. But it's only cost us an extra beer or two. 8-)

Congratulations on putting your plans in action, and good luck on settling in! I think you'll feel better once the place starts feeling familiar instead of new all the time.

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hermetic January 10 2012, 05:42:56 UTC
Thanks.

lunapalma makes the great suggestion of mailing them book rate. Next time I do a long-distance move, I'm totally doing that.

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lunapalma January 9 2012, 20:09:45 UTC
I'm glad to hear that you made it safely! Sorry that I was unable to help this week, but my grades were due at midnight on Tuesday, and I rewarded myself by going offline for a few days afterward.

BTW, the secret method we savvy academics use for transporting books is to mail them to ourselves, book rate. That does save quite a bit of money over having movers deal with them, but it also means having to deal with schlepping them to the P.O., etc. After I arrived in SF in the mid-1990s, my books arrived a week later: fifty boxes, enough to fill a whole mail truck! And then, I faced the task of carrying all of those boxes up my building's three long flights of stairs! Ouch!

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hermetic January 10 2012, 05:45:46 UTC
Oh my god, that's a brilliant suggestion. Next time I move long-distance, I'm totally doing that.

Thanks; I'm glad to be here now. No worries about anything; mostly it's just a lot of angsty flailing over here--the kind that I'll soon get over. :) Glad to hear that you're taking care of yourself; I'll try to learn from your wise example.

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enggirl January 9 2012, 23:14:01 UTC
There's this thing with moving, this fear thing. To get over it I have to think of myself as this small tiny thing, walking the face of the planet. Which seems incredibly terrifying... but somehow isn't in practice. Maybe it's because it reminds me that my person and my issues and my stuff really aren't that big in the scheme of the universe, so I start to see myself as a cog in a giant city's machine (in this case, meaning London).

Your stuff arriving will help. Time will help. But even without those, you can totally do this. As someone very wise told me when I was dealing with the past and my impending move: Be stronger than your fear. I know that YOU are!

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hermetic January 10 2012, 05:46:46 UTC
You're wonderful, darling. Thank you.

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metaphortunate January 10 2012, 05:20:16 UTC
Moving is hard! It just is, it doesn't mean anything is wrong. It will get better.

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hermetic January 10 2012, 05:47:26 UTC
Thanks. It's good to hear that.

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towersofgrey January 11 2012, 01:50:02 UTC
Everybody pretty much covered it above, but I just wanted to say that I know you will rock Portland. It is where you want and need to be and this is just the start of amazing chapter for you.

Just promise me you won't get into pickling;)

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