i've done that quiz a while ago, and i got also around that number i think. but it is an interesting subject to discuss indeed. because who decides what makes someone a slut? it all depends on the circles you're in. i think in deeply religious or conservative circles i could be labeled as a terrible devilish whore, while in more openminded circles, i'm considered pretty sweet and even timid at times.
yes, it's really weird how even me and my friends can have so different opinions about it too. we all have pretty much the same background and have all had a few one-nite stands. in fact, last year me and my two room mates back then slept with the exact same number of guys, but we looked upon ourself very differently. i asumed a large percent of normal singles around our age would do the same, while one of the other had a clear impression that we were easier than average. and perhaps she was right, that we were slutty during that periode, but i still believe it's VERY normal to got through such periodes!
i don't really believe in the label slut actually. the amount of guys you sleep with is just a number. and it all varies. i mean i have kissed and made out with far more many people than i actually slept with. So according to the actual number of sex, it's quite low, while the number of making out, would make me seem like a slut.
And i don't believe it's nescessarily a bad thing to make out/sleep with many people.
of course you're right! slut is used in a negative way and that's one of the reasons why i wouldn't put the label on myself and my friends! and even if one try to use the word with a neutral value in it, the most important is that a girl should do whatever she wants to do with her body!!! goes for boys as well, but we ARE more vulnerable of getting a bad reputation:(
Comments 10
Reply
Reply
( ... )
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
And i don't believe it's nescessarily a bad thing to make out/sleep with many people.
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment