[locked] If my question touches on things you'd rather not talk about, just say so and I'll pick another one. I suppose Jean-Paul's opinions have spurred my curiosity ...
Jean-Paul's opinions really aren't mine, you know. Half the time we disagree on things, which is probably why we're friends and not ever anything more. We'd drive each other crazy.
Hi, I'm stalling. Can you tell?
I'm answering your question with a question: do you mean in general as an orientation or are you talking about something more specifically?
I can tell you I don't see you as "a greedy bi boy" as Jean-Paul puts it.
In general ... or maybe with regard to me specifically. I know you don't share Jean-Paul's opinions; you have had some experience with women after all.
I suppose I'm wondering because I've gotten such a wide range of reactions from gay men, including many that were derisive or even downright hostile. I've been told I'm in denial, that I'm a coward hiding behind the possibility of having hetero sex ... as if my doing so were somehow a betrayal of them. There have been a few who cut off any connection with me when they found out.
Obviously that isn't you either, But like I said, I'm wondering.
Re: [locked]half_whole_pwFebruary 3 2009, 07:26:10 UTC
Considering that I've seen you with your ex-girlfriend, not trying to rub salt in the wounds--honest, I wouldn't say you're hiding behind anything. I'm sure there are queers that do though. I've been accused of that myself, wanting to 'look all butch so I can pass' if you ask Adam.
I've probably had more experience with women than you think, I just don't tend to talk about it much. I mean, Jesus, I told Jean-Paul I kissed a woman and he 'got worried' about me. Besides, the woman in question would probably kick my butt if I talked to you about it.
You are who you are. Whatever makes you happy is fine with me. I've had enough hate thrown my way for being gay, I'm not going to essentially do the same thing to someone else. Live and let live.
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[locked] If my question touches on things you'd rather not talk about, just say so and I'll pick another one. I suppose Jean-Paul's opinions have spurred my curiosity ...
What are your thoughts on bisexuality? [/locked]
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It's not like I'd hold you to one question.
Jean-Paul's opinions really aren't mine, you know. Half the time we disagree on things, which is probably why we're friends and not ever anything more. We'd drive each other crazy.
Hi, I'm stalling. Can you tell?
I'm answering your question with a question: do you mean in general as an orientation or are you talking about something more specifically?
I can tell you I don't see you as "a greedy bi boy" as Jean-Paul puts it.
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I suppose I'm wondering because I've gotten such a wide range of reactions from gay men, including many that were derisive or even downright hostile. I've been told I'm in denial, that I'm a coward hiding behind the possibility of having hetero sex ... as if my doing so were somehow a betrayal of them. There have been a few who cut off any connection with me when they found out.
Obviously that isn't you either, But like I said, I'm wondering.
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I've probably had more experience with women than you think, I just don't tend to talk about it much. I mean, Jesus, I told Jean-Paul I kissed a woman and he 'got worried' about me. Besides, the woman in question would probably kick my butt if I talked to you about it.
You are who you are. Whatever makes you happy is fine with me. I've had enough hate thrown my way for being gay, I'm not going to essentially do the same thing to someone else. Live and let live.
Can I ask you a question?
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