I think that boy is very selfish. He told the fat guy that he would try to accept him.
And the boy literally make use of him. What's new? The guy is 30~40 years old, and the boy is barely 21 years old.
I suppose this is a classic case of the typical young ajs in Singapore. I hate to use that word - s?g?a? daddy.
Sad, but true.
He managed to get that boy a job in the bank. He is now a mobile banker with just "N" level qualifications. Something which is almost impossible if he had just walk-in for an interview.
I think long distance might work on the premise that one party , finally , take the plunge and relocate. I've seen ppl working this out. I am positive it can , if both parties put their heart and soul.
But how is it possible when "physical" initmacy (not just about sex) is not there?
And what if you cannot travel to see that person every few weeks or something? Or exactly how long is "long" being apart?
Indeed, the technological advancement may make alot of things easier now. But being just a phonecall away (or a video call for that matter) is still different from being physically beside the person.
I do understand where you are coming from. But I guess one has to travel once every few weeks for that to be sustainable. But if this effort seems uphill, perhaps it is more apt to remain as friends.
Hmm. But I think it may work, if both parties are indeed older and can focus on other priorities whilst they are apart. But definitely not when either one is still a boy. No? :S
(1)Is the BOY good looking? (2)Indeed a sad story. My friend always tell me "love yourself even no one love you". (3)Ask yourself. Will you be with that MAN if you're the boy? No right? Welcome to the real world...:-)))
(1) I have not seen the boy. But I think his "youth" is his asset. (2) You're right. If you don't even know how to love yourself, how do you love someone else? (3) I won't because he is not exactly my type. I also will not lead him on for monetary gains. But as I said, there is always someone out there for every person on the planet. When that MAN was 100kg, he had a cute boy for a few years. And that MAN broke up with the boy. I dunno the main reason though.
It is indeed a sad story. It is indeed a superficial AJ world. Dont think anybody can deny that LOOKs are definitely important... well to a great extent it is. Not only in the AJ world, the str world, even the working world. If u are better looking, u will be treated better
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LOOKS can only sustain a relationship for a short-while. Don't you get bored of a cute face after awhile? I mean if his character totally sucks shit. Will you still find the wow-factor in him? Nah, I don't think so.
Yah, I hope that 21yo boy gets his retribution. He's only 21yo. There are many many more years to come. Maybe one fine day, the exact thing will happen to him. I saw the boy's pic, and he's erm.. no big deal really. Lolz. As what you mentioned in your blog, the why-not crowd. Wahahahahaha.
No lah, I'm not having any long distance relationship. It just came across my mind because my friend is facing the exact problem. I may get myself into such trouble, when I go back to Taiwan next weekend. Lolz. But well, I'm always a realist. My Melbourne thing is more than enough to keep me busy now.
Looks may only be the catalyst to make attract people to talk/get to know them. This is just a 1st impression.
Subsequently, if the person has the looks which comes with a lousy character, I bet at the end of the day you will find him "ugly", distasteful etc etc..
To me, it is really the whole package.
Pretty faces are just pretty faces. If my partner don't have any substance (or plain speaking: stupid), sorry I will never grow together with him/her in the relationship.
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And the boy literally make use of him. What's new? The guy is 30~40 years old, and the boy is barely 21 years old.
I suppose this is a classic case of the typical young ajs in Singapore. I hate to use that word - s?g?a? daddy.
Sad, but true.
He managed to get that boy a job in the bank. He is now a mobile banker with just "N" level qualifications. Something which is almost impossible if he had just walk-in for an interview.
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And what if you cannot travel to see that person every few weeks or something? Or exactly how long is "long" being apart?
Indeed, the technological advancement may make alot of things easier now. But being just a phonecall away (or a video call for that matter) is still different from being physically beside the person.
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(2)Indeed a sad story. My friend always tell me "love yourself even no one love you".
(3)Ask yourself. Will you be with that MAN if you're the boy? No right? Welcome to the real world...:-)))
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(2) You're right. If you don't even know how to love yourself, how do you love someone else?
(3) I won't because he is not exactly my type. I also will not lead him on for monetary gains. But as I said, there is always someone out there for every person on the planet. When that MAN was 100kg, he had a cute boy for a few years. And that MAN broke up with the boy. I dunno the main reason though.
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And don't you see rather odd looking couples around (regardless str8 or ajs)??
Obsese people will always have a group of chub chasers around them.
Skinny people will also have their own "market".
And the same goes for all other type of "body" groups.
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It may not be in the equilibrium point. But there will always be supply created as time passes. :)
Hope you had a great weekend. These few days had been so depressing for me. Too many sad things happening around my friends. Sigh.
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Yah, I hope that 21yo boy gets his retribution. He's only 21yo. There are many many more years to come. Maybe one fine day, the exact thing will happen to him. I saw the boy's pic, and he's erm.. no big deal really. Lolz. As what you mentioned in your blog, the why-not crowd. Wahahahahaha.
No lah, I'm not having any long distance relationship. It just came across my mind because my friend is facing the exact problem. I may get myself into such trouble, when I go back to Taiwan next weekend. Lolz. But well, I'm always a realist. My Melbourne thing is more than enough to keep me busy now.
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Subsequently, if the person has the looks which comes with a lousy character, I bet at the end of the day you will find him "ugly", distasteful etc etc..
To me, it is really the whole package.
Pretty faces are just pretty faces. If my partner don't have any substance (or plain speaking: stupid), sorry I will never grow together with him/her in the relationship.
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