"Going Through Transition"

[greenstorm]

So I've asked Angus to be out more-or-less for May 1st. We'll have lived here for 13 months; together for a couple more than that. He asked if we'd continue a relationship and I honestly don't know the answer to that question. Probably, definitely, I don't know a way not to be friends with him but there might need to be a period of mourning first

Comments

[dunfalach]

*hugs* I'm just going to say I'm sorry things took a rough turn, and you have friends and are much loved. Can't give you the snuggles from afar, but you know my ear is available if you need it.

[andi_sunrider]

hey hon. I'm sorry to hear about all this. I'm thinking about you, let me know if you want to get coffee or food or anything, ok?

[_greenwitch_]

I had similar relationships that ended when my partner was depressed long-term, sapping my energy, and I felt helpless to do anything more for them if they wouldn't/couldn't help themselves. All you can do is what you have done - remove yourself to a reasonable distance and hope that with some words of love and support they will learn to swim on their own when forced to do so. It's a rough call. With that same distance you can start to rebuild your own reserves and hopefully be a help to yourself and Angus. Take care.

[anonymous]

yo my ex roomate was addicted to teh crystal crank and imma tell yu what gurl that shit all teh same iun givvaa fuk if dat nigga 'pressed yo he cant be smokin that shit up in MAH cypher i gotsta live herr too kno'm sayin?? das lyfe anif dat nigga unt get clean by hisself aint nobody gun be able ta make him das just lyfe ya dig cant be trippin over fools fuckin tehmselves up thats they biz and even if you make it yo 's you still cant really affec it much alls you rill du is

LEAD BY EXAMPLE

'angus' is going to hit rock bottom and man up or hes going to break and there is _NOTHING_ you can do to change that other than delay the falling process at your own expense

whatever happens it was _NOT_ your fault so just... let... go...