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goodboyaj

Push to resolution…

Sep 25, 2008 09:35

Push to Resoultion

This is an old HR/Employee Relations approach that I learned years ago. It essentially means that you create or encourage a situation where a decision has to be made or intentions become very clear. Usually it is a very direct approach where the situation is purposely manipulated to provide only one of several outcomes. At work ( Read more... )

life, work, love

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cowboy_deluxe September 25 2008, 15:15:20 UTC

I am so confused.

goodboyaj September 25 2008, 15:20:50 UTC

I was... but it's all clear to me now...

cowboy_deluxe September 25 2008, 15:25:39 UTC

What are you talking about...work or "the world we live in and life in general?" This post is so cryptic!

goodboyaj September 25 2008, 15:57:33 UTC

It is vague on purpose - the meaning is clear to those involved... but it is also a commentary on those poeple that just let life happen around them and don't participate in it at all...

paladincub21 September 25 2008, 16:48:36 UTC

*hugs*

goodboyaj September 25 2008, 18:06:39 UTC

Thanks fo the hugs! This is not a life changing incident - it was something that I needed to happen, and so I made it happen... Nothing about my life has been changed dramatically, and now I can move on to enjoy the good things in my life!

paladincub21 September 25 2008, 18:08:07 UTC

I know. I'm just a fan of the concept. I usually refer to 'plot points', about how sometimes the need to make a choice, even if its not entirely clear, is more important than trying to find the perfect choice. Because one choice leads to the next, to the next plot point in your life. Making forward progress.

goodboyaj September 25 2008, 18:15:36 UTC

Very true! I like the push to resolution concept because the "wait and see" approach usually leads to stupid escalations, then you have to clean up before you can resolve... life is hard! LOL!

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noammg September 25 2008, 16:57:29 UTC

Sounds intense. I hope that you are okay and doing as well as can be expected.

goodboyaj September 25 2008, 18:11:19 UTC

Thank you! It is really just an internal struggle that I needed to go thru to get over an ex. (I was trying to make it vague so that he wouldn't be offended) I think that in my effort to protect the innocent it ended up being a much bigger issue in print than it is... It's just life. and I will survive to enjoy bigger and better and different things!