Some thoughts

[gloryforever]

Has it ever happened to you that your attempts at supportiveness not only fail, but get turned against you?

Comments

[wizardelfgirl]

Those trapped in a bad relationship seldom want to admit it or even notice it because they would have to admit they were wrong and others were right. She might eventually realize the truth, but whatever she does, she'll need the support of a friend.

[gloryforever]

She will, I know that. And I want to give it to her, it just threw me off that she (the rational counterpart to my impulsiveness) was so out of character I guess.

[pamoreno]

Your friend is bonkers!...I feel so sorry for her and I don't even know her.

What's so great about having two houses (I wouldn't really call them homes with this aggressive man inside) and two cars when you life might be at stake? Why did she pressed charges against her husband if their marriage is so damn great?!

I know you feel bad about the whole arguing with her, but I think you did the right thing.

*supportive hugging*

[gloryforever]

*hugs back*

Thank you very much for your words, Pau. I really needed them.

[vnfan]

Oh I would love to go to MexTESOL. I'd love to go to any TESOL convention, when it comes to it.

Can there really be that many stupid best friends around, or do we all unknowingly share the same best friend who just speaks lots of different languages and has houses everywhere, because everyone I know has one of those friends. It boggles the mind.

[annabtg]

Oh, dear. I think her head is really messed up.

But...

I don't think I even want to hear about it if she goes back to him, or if this ever happens again, but I am not sure I will be able to turn her down if she comes to me again.

I know the feeling.

Hugs,
Anna.