Sometimes people say that being over-protectiveness and jealousy are not good for any kind of relationship... But, as you, I can't stop myself but being such. I want the ones I love for myself, and I want to be sure they want me back... That's why I'm super angry and envious when my best friend is in my home and her other friends call her, or when she talks about them with me... I want her to think of me as more important, and it compliments me when she cancels meetings with them in purpose to be with me! And in the junior high school I was so envious when a friend of mine(a boy.. yeah) was talking with other girls(he's always with girls...) but I knew he thought I'm smarter and I always wanted to help him when he asked me... Now in high school he's in my class but we're not as close as we used to be...
I can understand how it could be bad for a relationship...but I can't help it, like you said. I can control it some, but I literally claim people. Which of course isn't always fair - but my friends and family are mine. If I like you, we can share them. If not, too bad. Probably not the best philosophy to have, but I can't help it. And I understand exactly what you mean about the boy thing. Even if I don't particularly have a crush on a particular boy, if I consider him a close friend I HATE when they get mixed up with other girls. Partially cuz he is mine, and partially because I don't want him to get hurt. So I understand where YOU are coming from completely as well. :) ♥
I'm like this too, and I'm a person who make conclutions and judge people quickly(so it's hard to be 'liked' by me :P)... I know the "ruling" thing is not such a good thing, but I can't help it too :/ Maybe one of the reasons for my seclusion is the disappointment from my society. And I'm not making friends so quickly(well that's because everyone are 'playing games' and it's hard to find someone with whom I have things in common).
Yes my society is not much either. :/ It's very disappointing. But unfortunately, it's to be expected. *le sigh* :( That's why we must surround ourselves with people we can really appreciate. :)
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Well, the point is- I completely understand :)
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Maybe one of the reasons for my seclusion is the disappointment from my society. And I'm not making friends so quickly(well that's because everyone are 'playing games' and it's hard to find someone with whom I have things in common).
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It's very disappointing. But unfortunately, it's to be expected. *le sigh* :(
That's why we must surround ourselves with people we can really appreciate. :)
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