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ginasaur_x3

Why does my back always hurt? Why am I a grandmother at 19?

Feb 24, 2011 19:18

I decided that I'm going to take a new approach. From now on I'm going to seriously attempt to let things ~roll. It really sucks to expect someone to do something and they let you down, so what if you don't expect anything at all? If I could get to the point where I just laugh and roll my eyes at it whenever it happens and maybe even make it into a ( Read more... )

rl stuff, blah, meme

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duelist_gurl163 February 25 2011, 21:52:59 UTC

Although obviously it would be good to be able to relax and not be upset over small things, what you said kind of worries me. =( Apathy isn't healthy either and I'm scared you'll want to hide things and not let anyone talk or help. Hopefully I'm just reading what you said wrong, but I want you to know you can ask and expect things of me. And you can rant and be angry and even be sad and I'd never think any less of you. Not letting a particular person as close if they bug you a lot is one thing and probably is good, but don't let everything go. Some stuff people NEED to be angry about because some stuff really isn't cool. I can't speak for anyone else but I can for myself and I mean it that I want to help and be there. So please don't push people or how you feel away too much, okay? Because it'll scare the people who love you. *cling*

ginasaur_x3 February 25 2011, 22:35:33 UTC

I'm not talking about you, don't worry. And I'm not becoming ~numb~ or something but with certain people you CAN'T expect things so getting upset or angry all the time is senseless and doesn't help. So I think it's a better route to just be able to laugh at it. It'll make me feel better and laughing > worrying. If something ever happened that was serious and REALLY got me upset I'm sure I'd have someone to talk to like yew (and ty for that :3), but I'm talking about the little things that just pick at you and gather up to make you snap. It's just...not worth it. Life is too short to always get upset and annoyed over the stupid things that people do. I'd rather just laugh at them.

duelist_gurl163 February 25 2011, 23:02:51 UTC

Okay, so I WAS reading it wrong. I'm sorry. ^^; I agree, sometimes if people bug you a lot it's best to let it go. Little stuff definitely isn't worth the hassle or time. (I do that with my dad as much as I can. His drama isn't worth my time.) Just as long as if something big happens that you want to rant about you know it's okay to be upset and talk. <3 I luff you. *hugs*

Now that I'm done being a worrywart, is it okay for me to ask you for questions? xD You got the meme from me but I like these memes too much. I like purple~

ginasaur_x3 February 25 2011, 23:52:04 UTC

You don't have to be sorry!! I know you worry and thank you for that. <3 The problem is that people I care about do things that I tell them not do to and they do it again and again and again until I just SNAP and become a ball of rage even if the last thing they did was small. It's just super annoying when you tell someone to STOP and they don't. So I'm just not gonna worry anymore so I don't have to have that frustration anymore. I think it's better for my health. xD I haven't been super-super depressed in a very long time which is good! If I am I know I have you, thank you! I luff yew too. :3 <333 *hugs back ( ... )