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[gigi_tastic]

 i dont understand how the one person hos supposed to love me unconditionally can resent me so much. it hurts.  why cant she just love me? why do i have to  walk on egg shells terrified that if i mess up she wont want me any more.  why am i not good enough for her

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[gigi_tastic]

thanks. now shes crying and the only way to make her feel better is by lying and saying its my fault. she's all no its both are faults... which pisses me off because i'm tired of taking the blame for things i dont do. but the guilt i feel about seeing her cry.. it makes me hurt even more. so its ok to let her think i'm at fault.. right?

[baileysummers]

Oh hell no. I'm sorry Gigi but she's the mother. It's on her to be the goddamned adult. You're growing up too and that's going to mean that you are going to have to just stop taking her drama.
Let her cry, leave her alone and let her cry and she'll stop just like any kid will when they finally figure out trying to manipulated you through your feelings won't work anymore.
It's not letting her think you are at fault. It's where she's leading you. If you let her away with it she's just going to do it over and over.
Sooner of later she will have to deal with you as an adult.
She doesn't want that, not one bit hence her freak out over you standing up for yourself.
Don't
Don't give into her.

You really need your own place. You need to cut the cord with her and let her sink or swim on her own and stop using you as her crutch and her whipping girl about how she can blame you for her shit to make you feel better.

Argh...Your mom is driving ME crazy.

*hugs the sad puffy eyed girl*

sorry if I bitched a bit too harshly.

Love Bailey.

[craving_vintage]

I'm sorry, hon. I hope you're feeling better.

Relationships with moms are the hardest thing on the planet. Hope she sees your side of things and realize that you're a great girl and wonderful daughter. :) And you should be treated with respect. And that it works both ways.