Comments | ghostwaters: So. . .

ghostwaters

So. . .

Oct 11, 2005 21:02

I haven't written in my LJ for a long while, I apologize. I got a job working weekends at a coffee shop, and it's taken up a lot of my energy; along with school also. All of the university application processes have started to move along, and everyone is grafting. It's so hard, trying to balance everything, but it's even harder when you have to try ( Read more... )

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ex_killerbee181 October 11 2005, 20:35:11 UTC

God, I remember how tiring the whole uni process was in upper sixth.

Seems like you're having a bum time, but keep plodding on, and your chin up chuck :) It'll all work out ok. Things always do :)

ghostwaters October 11 2005, 20:37:27 UTC

I'd probably be fine if I didn't have to do a lot of it for my boyfriend as well.

I'm tired.

ex_killerbee181 October 11 2005, 20:38:59 UTC

Is he really dead set against uni?

ghostwaters October 11 2005, 20:41:41 UTC

He's just so pessimistic about everything in the future. He echoes a whiney teenager at times, and it does my head in.

All he can see is too much hard work, and debt. I can't wait for the challenge.

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idahoswede October 12 2005, 05:18:24 UTC

First let me say that I'm sorry you're running into some emotional bumps along the way. It sounds like you yourself have a pretty fair picture of what you see your future to be and that's a lovely thing. I wish I could have had that at your age, truly ( ... )

ghostwaters October 12 2005, 19:23:37 UTC

I understand what you're saying, and I think Rikard understands now too. :) He's made the decision that he will move to England within the year to study. :D I just hope he sticks to it. :) It would be so wonderful. ^_^

brief_therapy October 12 2005, 14:56:09 UTC

It sounds like you're looking at things very realistically as well as optimistically. A combination which can only end up to your advantage. Good for you for going to university and good for you for asking yourself hard questions.

ghostwaters October 12 2005, 19:27:06 UTC

Thank you. :) I didn't think any of what I said to him was unreasonable, I just want him to be happy and comfortable, but to get MOVING and do something with the huge opportunities he has, y'know? I care about our relationship, and it affects both of us if he carries on being miserable, so I'm glad he's made a decision now :D (and even more glad that he's going to be moving to England, weeeeeeeee!)