finally. admittedly i'm fairly new to the lolita community myself, however i don't think the problem is that she's new so much as the fact that she is condescending when she has no right to be, considering her own (recent) past.
it seems to me like a lame attempt at ~fitting in~, like she's heard that the 'cool lolitas' are the mean, harsh ones and therefore that's what she aspires to be. that whole i'm-too-good-for-this-shit aura
bb, we all see right through it. you can stop trying now.
I know, but the lj text editor slows down my computer way too much. By the time I had finished typing the original post, I could barely get through the slideshow to click post.
Oh man one thing is to say crap online but another to say it in person. I agree, if she was bitching at a friend about something like that, I would step in and be like GTFO Bitch... usually i tend to snap if people are f-uped to a friend. But, surprisingly many people are different online than in person... I wonder if she's been to a meetup, I would love to know what the other lolitas thought of her IRL...
I think her attitude is probably one that carries over offline, and if not, it's so blatantly retarded that if anyone she knows irl saw them it would probably lower their opinion of her, at any rate.
She sounds like one of those "I'm too cool to care fuck you fuck them" teenagers who still wants to fit in with the cool kids, without actually doing her homework- she just read /cgl/ and thought that the popular girls are all super ~*blunt*~ and ~*in your face*~, lol
Although that one post about anime and lolita being separated really annoyed me... Doesn't she know there is a separate comm for lolitas who love anime... or does she believe we are all one sided? If she does, she should also know a ton of lolitas here are also cosplayers or wear VK, fairykei, etc when we're not wearing lolita..
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it seems to me like a lame attempt at ~fitting in~, like she's heard that the 'cool lolitas' are the mean, harsh ones and therefore that's what she aspires to be. that whole i'm-too-good-for-this-shit aura
bb, we all see right through it. you can stop trying now.
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Thanks for posting.
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For someone who calls herself charmed she should learn the fucking meaning of "charming".
I don't rage at anyone usually, but if she acted like this to someone irl I would drop my frilly fucking gloves and slap some goddamn sense into her.
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But, surprisingly many people are different online than in person... I wonder if she's been to a meetup, I would love to know what the other lolitas thought of her IRL...
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She sounds like one of those "I'm too cool to care fuck you fuck them" teenagers who still wants to fit in with the cool kids, without actually doing her homework- she just read /cgl/ and thought that the popular girls are all super ~*blunt*~ and ~*in your face*~, lol
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It is summer...
Although that one post about anime and lolita being separated really annoyed me... Doesn't she know there is a separate comm for lolitas who love anime... or does she believe we are all one sided? If she does, she should also know a ton of lolitas here are also cosplayers or wear VK, fairykei, etc when we're not wearing lolita..
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